Staff - Parent To Parent NYS

Mary Beth Fadelici
Coordinator
Mary Beth resides in Brooklyn with her husband, Bill, son, Will and daughter, Allison.
What characterizes me that I would like to make sure other people know about me and remember me by?
I am a good judge of character and I am a loyal friend and value my personal relationships.

Why is Parent to Parent important to you?
The diversity of the people we meet and knowing in some small way that we might have helped someone through a tough time. When you hear in someone’s voice “she gets it” is probably the most rewarding part of our job. Because I rely so heavily on my friends and family, it is important to let people know that there is someone there for them.

Did you contact Parent to Parent?
Yes, I often reached out to Ellen in our NYC office when I had questions or was at a loss for how to handle a situation.

What happens when a parent speaks with another parent and receives support from another parent?
I believe that loneliness is lifted. These are not the conversations that most parents are having with each other, so it is important to know that there are other people out there to have these conversations with.

How does the opportunity to connect with other parents benefit families?
You tell one person, they tell one person and so on….. Communication is established and information is shared.

What qualities do I look for when recruiting a support parent?
Balance. Someone who is not just looking to break down walls, but looking for solutions. An understanding of how things need to be addressed, and most importantly someone who will listen, not just talk.

What kind of information, referrals, or community connections are families looking for?
Services, access to services, good contact information. Connecting to people and organizations who will recognize their family member as an individual who is not just identified by their disability.

Was there a time when someone went above and beyond all expectations to help you with your child?
When Ellen McHugh got in touch with the Eastern Paralyzed Veterans to help my nephew when he lost his job due to his seizure disorder.

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